One by one earth's ties are broken
As we see our life decay;
And the hopes so fondly cherished
Brighten but to pass away.
One by one our hopes grow brighter
As we near the shining shore;
For we know across the river
Wait the loved ones gone before.
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Mary J. Byne - Comments from a Reader
Yesterday, I received a very nice comment from a reader about The Graveyard Rabbit of Attala County and the stories there. One post in particular, the story of the lone gravestone of Mary J. Byne, impacted the reader in such a way that she did some research on her own. This is a portion of this dear reader's comments:
"I particularly liked your story about Mary J. Byne, so I decided to do a little bit of research on her and here is what I found. A headstone depicting the lone figure of a woman symbolizes a widow, and the initial "J" most likely stood for her maiden name. On the 1850 US Federal Census Report I found the Joseph Youngblood family living in Marion County, Mississippi. Living with them was a 30 year old white male farm laborer from Georgia named F.M. Byne. My guess would be that the Byne's were related to the Youngblood family...though obviously not closely related since they didn't know when Mrs. Byne's birthday was!"
Not only did I learn something new about gravestone symbols, but thanks to this reader, someone searching for the Byne family in Mississippi now has another link to the past.
Reader's comments are valuable to me, and I welcome all of them!
"I particularly liked your story about Mary J. Byne, so I decided to do a little bit of research on her and here is what I found. A headstone depicting the lone figure of a woman symbolizes a widow, and the initial "J" most likely stood for her maiden name. On the 1850 US Federal Census Report I found the Joseph Youngblood family living in Marion County, Mississippi. Living with them was a 30 year old white male farm laborer from Georgia named F.M. Byne. My guess would be that the Byne's were related to the Youngblood family...though obviously not closely related since they didn't know when Mrs. Byne's birthday was!"
Not only did I learn something new about gravestone symbols, but thanks to this reader, someone searching for the Byne family in Mississippi now has another link to the past.
Reader's comments are valuable to me, and I welcome all of them!
Sunday, November 9, 2008
The Gowen/Gowin Family of Attala County
Yesterday, I received a very nice email from a Mississippi reader who is a volunteer for Find-A-Grave, telling me that he enjoyed my blog. He also told me that he has photographed all the graves found in the very old Ellington Cemetery near McAdams, Mississippi, and he wanted to direct me there. Since I had not yet visited this cemetery, I took his advice and checked out the listing of graves there.
First, I found that twenty-three of some of Attala County's oldest residents are buried in the Ellington Cemetery. Five of those buried were infants or very young children. Of the twenty-three persons, five were members of the Gowen/Gowin family, five were Ellington family members, and four were from the Crittenden family. Others persons buried in this cemetery are: Guyton (2), Jenkins (1), Hines (2), Dickens (1), Ellard (1), Bailey (1) and Boutwell.
One of the gravestones, a double one pictured here, shows the names Alexander Gowen, and his son, Richard. An engraved oval that separates the combined marker simply states "Father & Son." Although Alexander's date of birth is not shown, the headstone shows his death occurred on April 28, 1869. Richard's marker shows that he was born on May 24, 1952 and died shortly after his twenty-second birthday,on May 26, 1874.
As I searched further through the list of those buried in the Ellington Cemetery, I found a simple marker for "Mantha" Gowin, engraved "the wife of Alex." Mantha, or "Martha" as census records later indicated, was born February 3, 1817 and died on March 3, 1891, approximately seventeen years after her son's death.
There are twenty-three graves located in the Ellington Cemetery. Of those individuals, five were members of the Gowen/Gowin family, five were Ellington family members, and four were from the Crittenden family. Others persons buried in this cemetery are: Guyton (2), Jenkins (1), Hines (2), Dickens (1), Ellard (1), Bailey (1) and Boutwell.
The double headstone for Alexander Gowen and his son Richard fascinated me, primarily because it appeared to be one made for a man and his wife, not a man and his son. So I decided to research the Gowen/Gowin family that lived in Attala County during the 1800's. What I found was a very large family headed by Alexander ("Alex") and his wife "Martha."
According to the U. S. Census recorded in 1850, Alexander and Martha lived in rural Attala County, where he was a farmer. Alexander was not a wealthy man, even for those years, since the value of his property was shown on the census record to be only $500. His age was recorded as 36 years old, and his birthplace was shown as "North Carolina." Martha was shown to be 30 years old and born in Georgia. The Gowen household consisted of seven children named Edna, Sarah, Lott, Garrett, Isaac, Jesse, and Polly. Anotheer individual named William W. McCarter, whose relationship is not indicated, was also present in the household.
In 1860, two sons had been added to the Gowen family, and the spelling of the surname was now shown on the census taken in that year as "Gowin." Two sons, "Dickey" and "Alexander," were born in 1853 and in 1859.
There are two questions that have arisen from this look into the Gowen/Gowin family and its dead who are buried in the Ellington Cemetery. First, who was Richard Gowen? According to the U. S. Census taken in 1860, the Gowen son born in 1859 was named "Dickey." In all likelihood, "Dickey" was a nickname for Richard.
Second, why was Richard buried beside his father, in the place intended for Martha, his mother? It seems quite possible that Martha had erected a beautiful double marker for her husband's grave when he died, and at her death, she planned to be buried next to him. But tragedy struck, and her young son died when he was barely 22 years old, and he was likely the first of her children to be taken in death. In her grief, Martha buried her son next to his father in the place intended for her. Her own death and where she would be buried were likely not a concern at the time.
Richard's brother, Garrett, is buried in the Ellington Cemetery, as well, along with a Gowen/Gowin grandson, also named Alex. Although the last Gowen/Gowin family member was buried in this cemetery in 1904, I have found no record that anyone with that surname was living in Attala County by 1870. But the beautiful monuments to their lives as well as to their deaths, continue to be loving reminders of a family that lived there so long ago.
First, I found that twenty-three of some of Attala County's oldest residents are buried in the Ellington Cemetery. Five of those buried were infants or very young children. Of the twenty-three persons, five were members of the Gowen/Gowin family, five were Ellington family members, and four were from the Crittenden family. Others persons buried in this cemetery are: Guyton (2), Jenkins (1), Hines (2), Dickens (1), Ellard (1), Bailey (1) and Boutwell.
One of the gravestones, a double one pictured here, shows the names Alexander Gowen, and his son, Richard. An engraved oval that separates the combined marker simply states "Father & Son." Although Alexander's date of birth is not shown, the headstone shows his death occurred on April 28, 1869. Richard's marker shows that he was born on May 24, 1952 and died shortly after his twenty-second birthday,on May 26, 1874.
As I searched further through the list of those buried in the Ellington Cemetery, I found a simple marker for "Mantha" Gowin, engraved "the wife of Alex." Mantha, or "Martha" as census records later indicated, was born February 3, 1817 and died on March 3, 1891, approximately seventeen years after her son's death.
There are twenty-three graves located in the Ellington Cemetery. Of those individuals, five were members of the Gowen/Gowin family, five were Ellington family members, and four were from the Crittenden family. Others persons buried in this cemetery are: Guyton (2), Jenkins (1), Hines (2), Dickens (1), Ellard (1), Bailey (1) and Boutwell.
The double headstone for Alexander Gowen and his son Richard fascinated me, primarily because it appeared to be one made for a man and his wife, not a man and his son. So I decided to research the Gowen/Gowin family that lived in Attala County during the 1800's. What I found was a very large family headed by Alexander ("Alex") and his wife "Martha."
According to the U. S. Census recorded in 1850, Alexander and Martha lived in rural Attala County, where he was a farmer. Alexander was not a wealthy man, even for those years, since the value of his property was shown on the census record to be only $500. His age was recorded as 36 years old, and his birthplace was shown as "North Carolina." Martha was shown to be 30 years old and born in Georgia. The Gowen household consisted of seven children named Edna, Sarah, Lott, Garrett, Isaac, Jesse, and Polly. Anotheer individual named William W. McCarter, whose relationship is not indicated, was also present in the household.
In 1860, two sons had been added to the Gowen family, and the spelling of the surname was now shown on the census taken in that year as "Gowin." Two sons, "Dickey" and "Alexander," were born in 1853 and in 1859.
There are two questions that have arisen from this look into the Gowen/Gowin family and its dead who are buried in the Ellington Cemetery. First, who was Richard Gowen? According to the U. S. Census taken in 1860, the Gowen son born in 1859 was named "Dickey." In all likelihood, "Dickey" was a nickname for Richard.
Second, why was Richard buried beside his father, in the place intended for Martha, his mother? It seems quite possible that Martha had erected a beautiful double marker for her husband's grave when he died, and at her death, she planned to be buried next to him. But tragedy struck, and her young son died when he was barely 22 years old, and he was likely the first of her children to be taken in death. In her grief, Martha buried her son next to his father in the place intended for her. Her own death and where she would be buried were likely not a concern at the time.
Richard's brother, Garrett, is buried in the Ellington Cemetery, as well, along with a Gowen/Gowin grandson, also named Alex. Although the last Gowen/Gowin family member was buried in this cemetery in 1904, I have found no record that anyone with that surname was living in Attala County by 1870. But the beautiful monuments to their lives as well as to their deaths, continue to be loving reminders of a family that lived there so long ago.
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